just be kind
The first, and most tiring thing about dating as a parent is the strength it takes to be kind. Not just being kind like using my manners that are out of touch but the kindness that takes tenacity. The kindness that takes true strength that a parent has. Yall know that strength I'm talking about. Where you want to whoop your kid for doing something wrong, or where you just want an effing break from the crying of a colicky infant. You know that strength. You do. I swear to god, that kind of strength truly comes from your core. Dating requires strength. Dating requires kindness. Dating requires a belief in karma. Y'all can roll your eyes but it's true. Think about it. Think about the world that YOU are raising your child in. What you put in this world is what your child is going to grow up into. The words you speak, the attitudes you have, and the way you treat people not only sets an incredible influence for your child(ren), but good begets good. Again and again and aga...